Authored by William G. DeFoore, Ph.D.
The angry guy is not necessarily a bad guy, but he can sure cause some problems with his out of control anger.
Whether you're the guy who's angry, or if it's someone you know, you'll find some great stories here, along with some professional advice and solutions. One of the best ways to get help with anger is to find out how others are doing it.
That's exactly what you'll find on this page. You can read others' stories, and even tell your own story.
And, if selected, your submission will become a web page, along with the advice and guidance of Dr. DeFoore. It's easy, just follow the instructions below.
While everybody's situation is unique, there are some things that are common threads in these types of stories. Guys are just more likely to be openly angry and aggressive, and there are some good reasons for that.
Let's take a look at some of those reaons now:
So, as you can see, some men become angry for some very good reasons...and yet that does not justify or excuse any type of inappropriate or abusive behavior.
We want to hear your story, or the question you have. All you have to do is complete the form below, which has a place for your story or question and you're done.
Be sure and tell us:
That's all we need to know to provide some help for the angry man. If you want to see how it works, you can read others' stories, and you might even find answers there. Here's is your chance to get some professional help, in exchange for your contribution.
Here's your chance to ask Dr. DeFoore about your situation. It can be about your anger or somebody else's anger. Tell your story with as much detail as possible, and he will give you some free counseling.
Then, if selected, the results will be a web page on this site that will help others! So, there you go--help and be helped! By the way, you can be anonymous if you choose, but if you include your first name, it's better.
Click below to see contributions from other visitors to this page...
I'm In A Very Dark Place Right Now
Hi Dr. DeFoore
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