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For Couples With Anger Problems

I Can't Control My Anger Towards My Significant Other 
I would like to remain anonymous, so let's just say my name is Sarah. I've been dating my boyfriend, Max for over a year now, and lately I just haven't...

I'm In A New Marriage And I'm Having Anger Problems 
I have been married for about two years. This is my second marriage. My first marriage ended because my ex-husband was dating someone else. Ever since,...

Is This Healthy? 
I don't know if I'm doing the right thing by writing this on here, but I really need the help. And maybe with your advice and to know that I may not be...

My Guy Slept With Another Woman  Not rated yet
My boyfriend and I started out hot and heavy, very inseparable. We moved in with each other after only a few weeks of meeting, and I was pregnant by...

The Silent Treatment From My Girlfriend   Not rated yet
Well we have been together for four years. She is 19 and I'm 20. We have a 3 month old daughter. This all started I would say about 2 and half months...

I Am Angry And Break Relationships With Family And Friends  Not rated yet
I have grown up outside my family and been raised by relatives all of my childhood. I have experienced all kinds of bad treatment and occasionally good,...

Am I In An Abusive Situation?  Not rated yet
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. During the first seven years, my biggest complaint was that he seemed to think a woman's job is house cleaning...

Anger Affecting My Relationship With My Boyfriend On The Police Force  Not rated yet
I am a 21 year old female. I have a 26 year old boyfriend. His current job, special division in the police department, puts a lot of stress and pressure...

Verbal Abuse Victim Became The Abuser  Not rated yet
I was in a very emotionally abusive relationship for 2 years. My ex-boyfriend seemed like a very nice person-- gentle and sweet. But later on I found out...

The People Pleaser  Not rated yet
I met this hardworking mechanic. Our relationship moved very fast. I was a struggling single mom who had been having issues at workplace, which made me...

In A Long Distance Relationship And Don't Want To Lose Him  Not rated yet
Dear Dr. DeFoore: So I'm with this guy, and I really do love him, and he is very understanding. However, every time I talk to him, I'm so grumpy. It's...

40 Year Relationship Issues  Not rated yet
Our 37 yr old son was sentenced to prison several weeks ago. We (husband and I) always direct anger toward each other; everything becomes about us. We...

How To Deal With An Ex's Family When Kids Are Involved  Not rated yet
My ex was emotionally abusive. I left him when my daughter was a few months old because I didn't want her to eventually go through what I did. Turns...

Hurting My Wife's Feelings And I Want To Stop  Not rated yet
Most of the time when I get in an argument with my wife, I get really upset because I want her to know and understand I love her and whatever she said...

Fiance Has Anger Outbursts And Throwing Things  Not rated yet
I have been with my fiance for 4 yrs. When he gets angry, he throws angry outbursts and calls me names. He has a prescription for anxiety. He yells and...

My Friends Are Talking About Me And My Best Friend  Not rated yet
Well, my friends have a bad sense of humor, and I really am sick of how they like to talk about me and my best friend. So I would like to know how can...

Always Snappy And Mad At My Husband And Son But Nice To My Daughter  Not rated yet
I am always in a bad mood and for no reason at all. I'm mean to my husband and son. I'm mean to my mom and grandma and sometimes people in general. Mainly...

I'm An Angry Parent And An Angry Wife But I Don't Get Angry At Work  Not rated yet
For as long as I can remember I have wanted to have the perfect family. An easy going child, marriage working perfectly, no stress and happiness - so...

I Have Trust Issues  Not rated yet
Here lately I've been getting abusive with my girlfriend. I'm always catching her in lies. I know that that's no excuse to slap her or say the things...

How Do I Know When It Is Enough?  Not rated yet
Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been living together for 3 years, and in that time he has hit me and said mean and nasty things to me. I don't work and...

How Do I Deal With My Feelings About My Ex Husband?  Not rated yet
I started dating my ex.Husband at 17, and we moved in together when I was 19. I thought he was a good guy. I knew he could never hurt me because he had...

I Need My Loved One Back In My Life Who I Lost Because Of My Anger  Not rated yet
I have a big problem with my anger. My girlfriend does not listen to me when I'm pissed off and that drives me crazy. It's like she doesn't take me seriously....

She Left Me  Not rated yet
Well for the past 5-6 months I've been yelling a lot, especially at my formerly mentally abused girlfriend. That prompted her to decide we needed a break....

My Big Mouth  Not rated yet
I had planned for my boyfriend and I to have a wonderful weekend for his birthday. Room paid for, romantic dinner and a trip to the top of the Empire...

How To Deal With Dad?  Not rated yet
For as long as I can remember, my father has had a temper. When we were children, both my parents had a tendency to be hot-headed, actually, and it didn't...

I Hit My Boyfriend When He Insults Me In An Argument  Not rated yet
Okay, so my story is really crazy. I met my boyfriend through Myspace. We talked on the phone for a couple of months and hung out as friends for like one...

Short Temper And Frustration  Not rated yet
Well, I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year now. When it comes to us, things are perfect. Our biggest and only issue is the kids. She has...

Hurting The One I Love  Not rated yet
Hello, I keep on hurting my boyfriend with how angry I get and he has almost left me because of it. He says that he doesn't have expectations that I will...

Focus Fire  Not rated yet
I don't know where to begin. My husband has morphed into an anger monger and he is taking me with him. He is awesome, but there is this anger that happens...

Losing Ones I Care For Because Of Rage  Not rated yet
My fiance' just left me two days ago because my anger absolutely scares her. When I sang or screamed in a band I was in it allowed me to release the tension...

Betrayed  Not rated yet
Six months after my husband and I got married, he confesses all to me. He has slept with prostitutes and been lying to me about it for years. This is my...

Need To Fix My Abusive Fiance  Not rated yet
My fiance often verbally abuses me and his 14 year-old daughter. I'm not sure if it is a cultural thing but he seems to think he is right. And his mom...

Husband Over Reacts With Rage  Not rated yet
My husband of 18 years has occasions where he completely over reacts with anger. He yells and lays blame and insults in the most over-the-top manner. My...

From The Past  Not rated yet
I've been having a problem dating promiscuous guys, because since a tender age I've seen how my mum brought us through in deep pain and even today she...

I've Lost Tthe Love Of My Life Because Of My Rage  Not rated yet
I suppose punishing myself by constantly breaking up and raging at the love of my life was my own doing. Maybe I don't feel like I deserve to be loved....

My Anger Is Hurting My Family And Could Cost Me My Marriage  Not rated yet
I am married for 6 years with 2 kids. Recently my husband has moved out because of the marriage problems we have been going through for a while now. ...

A Fight With My Wife  Not rated yet
We just got back from the bar. We had a wonderful time with friends, and my wife started talking about an issue she's been dealing with for most of her...

My Boyfriend Needs Help With His Anger  Not rated yet
Dr. DeFoore, I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. I love him so much, but his anger is getting to the point where I am afraid. We can barely...

I Feel Angry Because I Feel Disrespected  Not rated yet
I am so angry today because my boyfriend did not come home last night, and did not call. We live together. He works until around 2am and he said he...

Desperately Seeking Help  Not rated yet
I am a married woman with young children. Myself & my husband are having difficulties in our marriage, anywhere from finances to intimacy. Our problems,...

Losing The One I Love Because Of My Anger  Not rated yet
My girlfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. We are still talking, but every time we do I get mad and scream and yell at her until she doesn't want...

Struggling  Not rated yet
I have recently ended a relationship and have concluded that my previous two relationships ended in a very similar way. I was told I was being emotionally...

My Anger Problems  Not rated yet
Okay, I don't know where to start. Me and my girlfriend have been together six years. I was let go by the military about six months ago. So for the last...

Sinking Fast  Not rated yet
I am now unemployed, currently going through with a divorce. I have three kids and I have my ex telling me that they are afraid of me, but when they...

My Anger Is Upsetting My Marriage  Not rated yet
Within the last five months, I have become extremely sensitive to everything. I take things out on everyone, and I am always fighting. My defense mechanism...

Mad At Everyone  Not rated yet
I'm on my third marriage and things are looking bad. We argue all the time. I think he tries to control me and that ain't gonna happen. So he gets mad,...

Control  Not rated yet
I was very happy in my current relationship at first. It began about 2 yrs ago. I thought I finally found the perfect man. He was kind, a good father...

Hitting My Husband  Not rated yet
I'm a nervous person from a nervous family. I take medication for anxiety. My husband was pushing my buttons last night in the car driving home. He wasn't...

Great Relationship That Went Downhill  Not rated yet
Well, when I first met my guy, it was the greatest thing that had happened to me. He was my world. We could talk about anything. We could look at one another...

Lack Of Support After Surgery  Not rated yet
I recently underwent a major surgery which will require a long recovery, and several follow up operations. During my recovery, very few of my closest family...