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First, thank you for affording me the opportunity to seek free counsel. I'm currently married to my high school sweetheart since 2010. We met in 2002 and live really fruitful lives- great careers, good income, beautiful family, new home, great friends and family.
Most people would define us as a power couple but rarely do they realize how difficult it is to communicate and respect boundaries in our marriage. My husband has anger issues and I was raised with watching my mother severely abused constantly. Unfortunately, I've married a guy with a lack of self-control and anger issues.
He has never hit me but he has grabbed me, pushed me, got in my face, threatened me, etc. As I write this, I actually have scratch marks across my face from him attacking me last night.
I understand that women stay because of commitment, love and the fight for change. I'm highly educated and a strong willed person who does not simply bow down to attacks. I fight for myself but often surrender prior to it getting completely out of hand. I do not understand someone who hurts their loved ones intentionally and chooses not to exercise self-control or restraint.
We are currently attending counseling irregularly because of demanding schedules. My husband also believes it's pointless to attend as soon as an incident occurs.
I guess my question to you is, when is it best to walk away and request separation? We have a two year old who I'm trying to give the best shot at life and break generational curses simultaneously. I do not want him to witness abuse but I agreed to a covenant before God that I would honor my husband and this marriage.
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