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Should I Marry Him Even Though He's Abusive?
Hello. I am in deep love with a man who has shown me a different world.
I have two children from my previous relationship. I met my now fiancé about 4 years ago. He has an amazing career, he’s been a great father figure to my kids and he truly does go above and beyond for them.
We both have a mushy personality. We love hanging out together and cuddling and being with the kids. We aren’t big partiers and we are both in our late 20’s so that is also a plus for me. He cooks, he cleans, he does laundry, he food shops, he helps with the kids, he does it all! He is amazing isn’t he?
But that same guy has a mean way with words when he is angry, and lately I feel like it doesn’t take much to get him upset. We’ve recently got engaged, and it feels like he breaks up with me so often.
We live together and I haven’t left this apartment once yet. But it feels unstable to me because I don’t know where I will be in a year from now. Will we be together or will I get kicked out?
I’m trying to enjoy the wedding planning but I don’t want to plan if our relationship isn’t healthy. How is it that this same amazing man who literally shows me so much love, also says mean things when angry, like calling me a bitch, etc?