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We regularly chat because my husband's in other country. He always say he loves me. But, while chatting with me, he fell in love with another woman, whom he met from a party.
I found out after few 3 weeks. I'm always trying my best to be the best wife for him. I love him so much and I want to keep him. I want to save our marriage.
But until now, I'm struggling with what he did to me. Does he really love me? Does he really love that woman? Is he sincere when he said he was sorry? Is it true that he still loves me after I've learned what he's doing? Please help me. I need advice.
Response from Dr. DeFoore
Hello, and thanks for telling your story here. I understand that you're in a difficult situation, separated from your husband and knowing that he has been with another woman. I'm sure that would be very painful for anyone.
I have no way of knowing the answers to your questions--whether he loves you, the other woman, or whether he is sincere in his apology. There is no way that I (or you, for that matter) can know that.
Your focus needs to be on yourself. You can't really do anything about your husband. He will either be true to you, or he won't.
You can most definitely do something about your own life, however. Focus on creating the best possible life for yourself that you possibly can.
Get a copy of these CDs on raising your self esteem. Self esteem is the core of your entire life experience.
Believe in yourself. Focus on your good heart, and know that if your husband is worthy of your love, he will be faithful to you.
My very best to you,
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