Authored by William G. DeFoore, Ph.D.
Mindtools can be very helpful for controlling emotions and improving your outlook on life in general. Most people don't think of anger and optimism in the same thought, much less the same sentence. The fact is, however, they are closely related.
Being angry includes predicting negative things about other people and circumstances, and optimism means expecting the best from everyone and everything.
Whether you know if or not, your mind is brilliant, and now you're going to learn how to use it more successfully.
Your mind is a tool, and it is perhaps the most powerful tool you possess. Why not use it to create the health and happiness you want?
That's exactly what you're going to do here, and as a result, you will have powerful mindtools that you can use for the rest of your life.
The default mechanisms of the mind are survival-based. That means they are based on fight or flight, and are negative in focus.
This is how the default problem-focused part of the mind create anger issues:
It's pretty easy to see how this works. When you let your mind focus on the problems, it raises your stress and irritation, and actually limits your ability to use any positive mental skills that you may already have.
Watch this excellent video where kids talk about moving from anger to mindfulness.
Okay, so what do we do about it? Good question--let's get right to it.
Here is a list of the mental tools that I recommend for anger control and optimism:
These tools and techniques are simple to understand, and yet very challenging to apply. That's why they're so powerful. If you make the effort and use the discipline to use the powerful and effective methods, you will get excellent positive results and become your own best anger management resource.
Discover more anger management cognitive methods here.
Preview the Goodfinding audio program below, which you will find to be one of the best mindtools available!