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Dr. DeFoore's Healing Anger Newsletter entitled "Why Anger Is Not Good For Communication"
January 15, 2018
Why Anger Is Not A Good Communicator
"Unhealthy anger creates a defensive reaction, and shuts down the ability to listen and respond effectively."
So why do people try so often to communicate with anger? Good question!
It is simply out of frustration and a sense of helplessness, or the belief that "they won't hear me any other way."
Anger comes out of the emotions of fear and pain, and it's supposed to solve a
problem...yet it often only makes the problem worse.
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If the other person's not looking for someone to jump on their anger bandwagon, they really don't want to hear about your anger.
People are by nature smart, good, and problem solvers, as hard as that might be to believe sometimes...it's true.
So, what they want to hear from you is:
You're too smart and healthy to go around complaining and being angry. Start focusing on what is good, right and working in your life, and you'll see things starting to get better...if you stick with it.
Become a problem solver and a Goodfinder, and you'll find people much more interested in what you have to say, and good communications will grow in all of your relationships.
This highly effective audio program, available as a CD or MP3 download, will help you focus on what is good, right and working in yourself and others, making it much easier to stay calm and communicate effectively.
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The Healing Anger Newsletter brings you a refreshing, helpful and upbeat approach to anger management and how it can work for you in every aspect of your life. Here is your chance to keep up with my (Dr. DeFoore here) latest discoveries and insights on anger management and how you can heal the anger in yourself, your family, your school and your workplace.
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