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Dr. DeFoore's Healing Anger Newsletter entitled "Comfort With The Unfamiliar" March 15, 2024 |
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Comfort With The Unfamiliar
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Healing Anger Newsletter, Issue #190
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Contents of this newsletter
- How To Be Comfortable With The Unfamiliar
- Meditation Emotion and Healing
- Welcome To New Subscribers
- What's New on AngerManagementResource.com?
How To Be Comfortable With The Unfamiliar
Fear of change and undertainty is a huge cause of unhealthy, out-of-control anger.
Much of destructive anger has been fueled by a fear of helplessness, which is usually caused by an inability to handle the unknown and the unfamiliar.
When you remain calm while facing uncertainty and the unfamiliar, you will make better decisions and be more emotionally intelligent.
- The key is to shift your focus from what is going on outside you to what is going on inside you. You have zero control over what is happening around you, and complete control over what is happening in your mind and emotions.
- The first step is conscious, deep, belly breathing. Ask yourself what you know for sure, and shift your focus away from the uncertainty happening around you.
- Getting angry will not give you control over what is making you uncomfortable, but breathing and shifting your focus inside will move you toward the comfort you want.
- Your inner being is wise, and has knowledge and guidance for you, when you become still and quiet enough to listen.
Think of it this way...
Life is uncertain and unpredictable, and that means we will all deal with uncomortable feelings. The beautiful life you want becomes available to you when you begin to find peace in the midst of uncertainty. William DeFoore |
Learn to master the art of shifting your focus from your external life to your internal life. An entire segment of Goodfinding: A User's Guide to EQ and Your Brilliant Mind is devoted to the art and practice of shifting your focus.
You will still have your outer focus, but you will be more calm, clear, focused and intelligent when you learn to focus primarly inside and secondarily outside yourself. You are so much more wise and powerful than you realize!
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The Healing Anger Newsletter brings you a refreshing, helpful and upbeat approach to anger management and how it can work for you in every aspect of your life. Here is your chance to keep up with my (Dr. DeFoore here) latest discoveries and insights on anger management and how you can heal the anger in yourself, your family, your school and your workplace.
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New web pages for you. Read new contributions from good folks like you, such as Betrayed And Rejected And Now I Can't Let Go by a woman trying to break free from an obsession about a relationship, and this powerful story by a young woman trying to find a place for herself in the world, called My Mom
Wishes I Had Never Been Born.
We Have A Mobile Site. Please visit our site, AngerManagementResource.com using your smart phone, and check out the mobile version of the site. I would really appreciate your feedback -- just look for your favorite information, and see if you find it easy to navigate. Then let me know what you think! Thanks in advance.
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Dr. DeFoore and visitors like you. To follow us on Facebook, just go to Anger Management Resource by Dr. William DeFoore and click on "Like" at the top of the page -- or, follow us on Twitter!
New Web Site! That's right, Dr. DeFoore (that's me) has created an all new web site that is all about helping you feel good about yourself and the world around you. Visit goodfinding.com and find lots of positive, upbeat perspectives to help you with your anger and every aspect of your life, and sign up for the Goodfinding Newsletter, and/or the Daily Goodfinding Quotes.
P.S. Why not make the rest of your life the best of your life? You can get started right now with Elegant Aging: Growing Deeper, Stronger and Wiser.
P.P.S. Did you know that
I offer telephone (including Skype and Face Time video phone) counseling around the world? That's right, from the comfort of your home, you can get professional counseling from me, Dr. William DeFoore. Contact us now to schedule a session!
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