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Dr. DeFoore's Healing Anger Newsletter entitled "Why So Much Anger In My Relationship?"
May 15, 2021
Why So Much Anger?
"Love starts when you choose to love what is lovable in your partner, and trust them to take care of the other parts."
The effort to change your partner by judging, criticising, questioning and doubting them will only make things worse. If they aren't lovable and trustworthy, end the relationship! You simply cannot change another person.
It's hard to stop the negative focus on all of the things that bother you about your partner, so get started now with retraining your brain to focus on the positive, if the relationship is worth salvaging.
Keep your positive connections working for you by discovering all of the ways to participate in the Goodfinding Community Online page.
As the chart above suggests, you started with the best of intentions, and then things went bad over time. Let's see if your relationship is fixable.
Let's face it...everybody has some aspects that are just unlovable. Don't try to love the unlovable parts, it just won't work. And, as I've mentioned, you can't fix them either.
Here are some steps to take to create a happy relationship:
Believe me, I'm not saying this is easy...it's not. But it's doable, if you have a good enough relationship to start with.
If there is addiction or abuse in your relationship, those issues have to be resolved first, before any of this will work. Get help with relationship problems here.
This highly effective audio program, available as a CD or MP3 download, will help you heal anger and disappointment and create strong, loving relationships.
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The Healing Anger Newsletter brings you a refreshing, helpful and upbeat approach to anger management and how it can work for you in every aspect of your life. Here is your chance to keep up with my (Dr. DeFoore here) latest discoveries and insights on anger management and how you can heal the anger in yourself, your family, your school and your workplace.
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