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Dr. DeFoore's Healing Anger Newsletter entitled "Don't Be A Victim" January 15, 2021 |
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Don't Be A Victim
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"Most perpetrators of abuse will describe themselves as 'victims.' This is how they justify their destructive behavior." William DeFoore |
Claiming the "victim position" is a way of denying any responsibility or blame. This is tricky...because we certainly don't want to "blame the victim" and we also don't want to excuse bad behavior for those claiming to be victims. Ask any courtroom judge how difficult it can be to figure out exactly who the victim was.
Now let's jump into some solutions.
It's one thing to be a victim, and it's something else entirely to feel like a victim!
If you choose to feel like or think of yourself as a victim, you're denying responsibility and making yourself helpless...and probably angry. Although you may not realize it, most anger comes from feeling victimized.
Here is your path to freedom!
These are powerful insights and tools...but they will only work for you if you use them!
The more you use them, the better they will work for you, and the more skilled you will become.
This highly effective audio program, available as a CD or MP3 download, will help you step out of the victim position by looking for and focusing on what is good, right and working about you, your life and your circumstances.
Take advantage of the free previews, and the no-risk return policy that guarantees your satisfaction.
The Healing Anger Newsletter brings you a refreshing, helpful and upbeat approach to anger management and how it can work for you in every aspect of your life. Here is your chance to keep up with my (Dr. DeFoore here) latest discoveries and insights on anger management and how you can heal the anger in yourself, your family, your school and your workplace.
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