I'm sorry to hear that you are going through being ostracized. It's a horrible thing to do to someone. I know that situation. When I started here, there was a woman who controlled everything. She and another girl would have these lunches in our team lunchroom and they made it very clear that I wasn't invited. Then, as other people came through, those other people were invited into their lunch group and I was not.
This woman bad mouthed me to the boss and to everyone she could and they only every came near me for money. One time someone left and sent an email out to everyone saying 'I want at least $20.' These comings and goings happened, and still happen, continuously. The person she wanted it for had also joined her bitch group and pointedly joined with her in meetings to criticize me.
SHE has the problem, not me. One of the people that joined with her against me was a bloke. They eventually pushed him away and he came to me the other day complaining and asking if I would form a group with him. I said that God was my group.
Make your own friends outside work even if it's only online - things can grow from there. Try the fish site, it's good.
Those sort of people can make you feel bad but don't let them. At best, they are insensitive and you don't need them.
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