Boyfriend's Cussing!

by Sandra
(Tennessee)

Boyfriend fusses and cusses and blames it on me that I have now made him mad!

What do I do? He does have high blood pressure and will not get treated because he doesn't want his sex life messed up! HELP!

Response from Dr. DeFoore

Hello Sandra, and thanks for telling your story here. It sounds like you are someone who is in an abusive relationship. He is responsible for his anger, so you didn't "make him mad." He got mad on his own, in response to something you said or did. His anger is his responsibility.

Read the following pages on relationships, and I think you'll find the help you're looking for:

how to deal with abusive relationships
battered wife syndrome
quotes on relationships
relationship advice
letting go of a relationship
couples communication skills
nurturing your inner child
Getting The Love You Want

My very best to you,

Dr. DeFoore

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