The Angry Woman Problem
What To Do Whether It's You Or Not



Being an angry woman is no fun. And it's no fun for anybody else either. So, whether it's you that's angry, or someone close to you, you'll get some good help right here.

We'll look at some of the unique things that make a woman angry, and then we'll talk about what to do about it.

If you're dealing with your own anger, or if you're trying to deal with the anger of someone else, we'll point you to the information, resources and products you need to get the job done.

And, we will remind you that you and your good heart are your own best anger management resource along the way. Believe in yourself and your own life experience, to reach your goals here.


Are You The Angry Woman?

Well, first of all, there's nothing wrong with you just because you're angry. As a matter of fact, you have good reasons to be angry--the important thing is what you do with your anger!

If you vent it in destructive ways, you hurt others and yourself. And, if you just stuff it, you hurt yourself most of all. The point here is to express your anger in healthy ways, so it doesn't hurt you or anyone else.

But first, let's look at some of the reasons you might be an angry woman:

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  • You may have been abused, violated, neglected or abandoned--or a combination of those.

  • The males in your family may have been favored over you, giving you the impression that you were a "second-class citizen" or less valuable just because you're female.

  • You may have been a victim of sexual harassment or gender bias, receiving bad treatment specifically because of your gender.

  • Or, you may have simply had negative role models, either setting a bad example with their own anger, or by treating you poorly.

Now--here's where you heal and become the person you want to be

Regardless of the reasons for your anger, you are responsible for how you deal with it. You have already been hurt, so here's your opportunity to use your anger in healthy ways so that you don't just get hurt some more. You'll find all of the steps below on this anger control page, where you'll be guided to:

  • Tell your story. It will really help you to just get it out on paper, where you can use your mind to understand and organize your emotions.

  • Use anger journaling exercises, so that you have a safe place to put your anger on a regular, daily basis.

  • Gain better control by using anger management techniques on a daily basis until you have mastered them.

  • Learn and utilize imagery processes for emotional healing regarding each of the traumatic experiences you recall from your past.

  • Shift your mental focus from the things that anger you to those things that make you feel good. The positive journaling process will help you with that.

Being an angry woman is not a permanent affliction. You are above all a person, with a good heart and mind. Doing the above exercises will help you to access and use your good heart and mind, connecting you with the good person that you are inside.



Are You Dealing With An Angry Woman?

Okay, just to make sure you're not part of the problem yourself, do all of the above recommended exercises. It will be helpful to you, no matter what. Then, to handle your relationships with the angry people in your life:

  • Learn these communication tools for conflict resolution. Ideally, you can get the angry woman in your life to participate with you in this.

  • When you use those communication skills, you will also be learning and practicing empathy and listening skills, which will help you deal better with anyone's anger, including your own.

  • Use these positive journaling exercises to focus on what you like and appreciate about the other person. Just focusing on someone's positive aspects can greatly help you in dealing with them more successfully.

Whether you're angry or not, you've got what it takes to deal with the challenges that lie before you. Believe in yourself and your good heart!

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