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Megan, it is not this girl's fault that your fiance is sleeping with her. It's your fiance's total responsibility to stay faithful to you. You must understand this. This other girl is just as much a victim as you are. She is obviously alone and having a baby to someone else. Her life was a terrible mess even before your fiance came back into her life - now it's even worse. Trust me, it is. Do not stay with this man who is no man and understands nothing and does not treasure you because you are treasure. The best help I have ever received for childhood abuse issues and for relationship is this site and Dr De Foore's comments. Please read more on here and become part of this online community. You will be supported as you grow and learn to give yourself the best not the worst. A fantastic thing that Dr DeFoore has on this site under the Anger blog with the subject about how to let go a relationship is this: 'A lot of times when someone is moving out of your life, it's not them you're having trouble letting go of--it's the dream of who you thought they were, and what you hoped to have with them. You're also letting go of who you were in that relationship. We're a little (or a lot) different in each of our relationships, so when one of them ends, we're giving up that part of us that showed up only with that person. Try writing about these...your dream of what you wanted the relationship to be, and who you were in the relationship. That's what you're really letting go of.' I'm sorry for your pain Megan. PLEASE don't hurt this girl it isn't her fault that this man doesn't stay faithful to you. You are worth more and you don't know that. If you stay on this site and share your stories you will learn and you will heal and you will make a wonderful life for yourself. You will live a life of misery if you stay with this person you call your fiance.

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