Angry 6 Year Old Boy
by Anonymous
(NY)
At the beginning of this school year my son started to become very angry whenever someone picked on or teased him. He wouldn;t go to a teacher but would instead have a fight. The teachers would explain that he needed to let them know whenever it happened. He started to do that but to no avail.
His anger has grown so much that he gets into trouble all the time and has been suspended for his angry fits. What troubles me is that it only happens when he is in school. At home, in public places or with others, he is perfectly fine. In fact, the behavior that the school has stated they see I have have never experienced with him.
He is very smart, one of the top of his class. He has never exhibited this kind of behavior until the bullying started. While I think he has a right to be upset for being picked on, the reaction and retaliation has gotten him suspended yet again. I have reached out to a therapist but don't know what else to do.
Since it doesn't happen at home, it's hard for me to know where to start.
Response from Dr. DeFooreHello, and thanks for telling your story here. I recently responded to a similar story from another concerned mother. You will find
that story and my response here.
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this page on bullying. You will find specific help for parents whose children are being bullied. Also visit our
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