Anger Management Games
For Children With Anger Issues




Here are some of the best anger management games to teach your children, whether you're a parent, teacher, or anyone helping with child anger management.

Anger doesn't have to be a heavy or negative subject. As a matter of fact, it is much better for adults to be calm and light-hearted in dealing with children's anger.

If you have anger control problems, or if you're depressed from anger suppression, you may not be successful in supervising anger management activities for children. There is anger management help for you here, if you need it.

You'll learn some child anger management activities here. Let the games begin!



The "Name It, Aim It, Claim It!" Game


This is an easy and educational anger management game that you can teach and demonstrate. Most children (including us when we were children), did not get any education about emotions.

Here's your chance to learn by teaching. Here are the steps to this simple but powerful game:

  • Name It! This is where you are teaching children the language of emotion. Basically the words for naming anger are, I'm angry! or I feel angry! or I'm mad! You'll notice we're not saying, "S/he made me mad" or anybody "made me" anything. We're trying to teach responsibility here. It's also good to name the other emotions, like scared, afraid, sad, hurt, etc.

  • Claim It! This is another step in taking full responsibility. To help with this part, encourage your child to say only, "I'm angry!" instead of "I'm angry at her!" The focus is helping the child claim ownership of their emotions, so that they can learn to act responsibly. If they're caught in blaming others (the "blame game"), then they have to wait for the other person to change before they can feel good again. Acceptable language might be, "I'm angry because..." or "I get mad when..." I realize these are subtle distinctions, but I assure you they are important.

  • Aim It! Now we get to the action part of this anger management game. Ideally, this is where you help the child find some kind of constructive action that allows them to express and/or release the built up energy of their emotion. Examples of healthy actions to "aim" the anger are, relaxation and breathing, physical activity, writing down how you feel, and talking it out with the other person.

This is a great game for parents to play with their children every time anger comes up. This will only work, however, if the child is calm enough to focus and cooperate with the game.

If your child is extremely upset, you will need a different type of anger management game. Read on.




Anger Management Games For Emotional Release


Here are some examples of anger management games that give the child more of a physical outlet for anger, which can be very beneficial at times.

    Anger Management Games
  • Playing with toys under supervision, or professionally provided play therapy, is very helpful for children needing to releas their anger. Parents and professionals can learn a lot about the child by watching how s/he interacts with the toys, and the type of drama and conflict created. This may include sketching, painting or play with clay.

  • Sometimes children benefit from hitting pillows with open hands, or an object such as a tennis racket or bataca bat. It's best if this is done in a playful way, to encourage the child to participate freely. It's sometimes called, "the anger game," to give children the feeling that it involves some type of play.

  • Another variation on this is a type of temper tantrum release. This is a simple matter of the child lying on her back and pounding with both fists and kicking with both feet. If you're a parent and considering using this approach, you may want to consult with a professional first to make sure these types of anger management games are suitable for your child's needs.

Let's face it, there's nothing funny about anger, so coming up with some good anger management games and anger management activities can be challenging.

It's still a good idea, because of the way that children connect and communicate through play. And remember you are your child's best anger management resource.


anger in children

HELPING YOUR CHILDREN WITH THEIR ANGER:
A Guide For Parents of Children and Adolescents

reg.$29.99 Now only $27.95 Download $24.95

Children have good reasons for their anger. Here is your chance to find out what those reasons are, and what you can do to help. Gain the knowlege, understanding and skills you need to help the children and adolescents in your life to be the great kids they really want to be.



child anger

HELPING YOUR CHILDREN WITH THEIR ANGER:
A Guide For Parents of Children and Adolescents

reg.$29.99 Now only $27.95 Download $24.95

Children have good reasons for their anger. Here is your chance to find out what those reasons are, and what you can do to help. Gain the knowlege, understanding and skills you need to help the children and adolescents in your life to be the great kids they really want to be.





Return to child anger management

New! Comments

Have your say about what you just read! Leave me a comment in the box below.


New Office Location!

Facebook Follow Button

Anger Management Ebook
Free Ebook!
Just Subscribe To
Healing Anger Ezine

E-mail Address


Name

I keep this private



Follow Our Blog Too



Recent Updates

  1. Vulnerability Makes You Stronger

    Jun 06, 17 12:16 PM


    Excellent article pointing out how vulnerablility does not mean weakness...it can actually add to your strength & personal power.

    Read more

  2. My Husband Has A Marijuana Problem And Rages Over Trivial Things

    May 30, 17 06:20 PM

    I am an intelligent, professional woman. I find myself in a situation that I desperately need advice about. My husband and I have been married 4 years.

    Read more

  3. My Wife Wants All Of My Attention & Hates My Family

    May 24, 17 05:53 PM

    I live in Australia. My sister introduced me to a girl in Europe who became my wife after a year or so. As we were preparing for our wedding, I realised

    Read more