The Healing Anger Newsletter (skip to where the new issue starts) brings you a refreshing, helpful and upbeat approach to anger management and how it can work for you in every aspect of your life. Here is your chance to keep up with my (Dr. DeFoore here) latest discoveries and insights on anger management and how you can heal the anger in yourself, your family, your school and your workplace. If you like this ezine, please do a friend and me a big favor and "pay it forward" by forwarding it to them. If a friend did forward this to you and if you like what you read, please subscribe by visiting the Healing Anger Newsletter subscription page. This newsletter and the web site, AngerManagementResource.com were built and are maintained through a program called SiteBuildIt!, which is now offered as an eLearning course you can take from home! It's the best way I know of to deal with the economic stress that so many are facing right now. Find out how you can start your own successful Internet business by watching these great videos about why so many people love SiteBuildIt! Would you like to lend a helping hand? If you have purchased a book, CD or audio download, I would very much like to hear what you thought of your product! With your permission, I will publish your comments, with your name, on my web site to help other visitors like yourself learn more about the products. This would be a big help! Oh! By the way, did you get your free E-book? If so, after you've had a chance to read it and try some of the Anger Management Techniques, write to me and let me know what you think! April 1, 2011 Healing Anger Newsletter, Issue #035 Your Children's Anger And What To Do About It Contents of this newsletter What's New on AngerManagementResource.com? It's Not About The Child How Can I Help My Angry Child? Help For Parents With Their Children

What's new on the web site? Lots of opportunities and new visitor stories--check them out! Visit Our Facebook Page giving you all of the latest updates from Dr. DeFoore and visitors like you. To follow us on Facebook, just go to Anger Managment Resource by Dr. William DeFoore and click on "Like" at the top of the page--or, follow us on Twitter! Visit Goodfinding.com, Dr. DeFoore's other web site. Find lots of positive, upbeat perspectives to help you with your anger management, and sign up for the Goodfinding Newsletter. Anger often comes from keeping a very negative focus--and here's your antidote! Three new articles at EzineArticles.com. One article about an anger test and how it can help you decide if you need professional help, one about anger management technques, and one about depression warning signs and why they must be taken seriously. Here Are The Latest Stories contributed by visitors just like you. Go to this page and you will see the titles of all of the new submissions that have been added during the month. Be sure and read I Don't Know Who I Am Any More, I Am Out Of Control With Alcohol And Anger, and Is This A Temper Tantrum? Feel free to comment on any of these pages and offer your support to these good souls reaching out for help. It's Not About The Child If your child is angry, there is always a good reason for the anger. I know, it may be hard to figure out what that reason is, but I assure you it's there. And the answer is never just, "he's just an angry child," or "she's always had a bad temper." Here are some thoughts to consider: Your child is good. S/he was born with the need to love and be loved. You're human, so you have not met all of your child's needs perfectly. Therefore, your child has experienced pain, sorrow and fear. And that's where their anger comes from. Anger is a normal, healthy response to pain and fear. The healing happens when you find out what that pain and fear is, and deal with it in healthy ways. One of the most common causes of child anger is neglect of basic needs. Learn more about children's basic emotional needs on this page. How Can I Help My Angry Child? You want to help because you're a good person, and a good parent--that's why you're here, reading this. Relax, read through this, and see what resonates with your personal internal wisdom. First, heal your own anger, so that you can be a good, healthy role model to your child. This is the most powerful influence that you can have. Develop and maintain a positive mental picture of your child. Every time you think of your child, see them at their best, behaving well and cooperating. Use these positive journaling exercises to begin focusing your mind on the very best and most positive aspects of your child. Learn and practice all of the skills described on this child anger management page. You have so much positive power as a loving parent! This is not a matter of blaming yourself for the problem, it's a matter of taking responsibility for the solution. You have everything it takes to help your angry child. Believe in yourself and the goodness in your heart. Use the resources I've referenced here, and you can do it! One of the best resources I know of for helping children who are defiant and oppositional, is the Total Transformation Program. I am an affiliate with the parent company, Legacy Publishing, Inc.--that's how much I believe in this program! Help For Parents With Their Angry Children Dr. DeFoore's audio CD program entitled, Helping Your Children With Their Anger: A Guide For Parents of Children and Adolescents will give you great information, techniques and encouragement with this challenging problem. Listen to free previews, buy the CD, or download to listen immediately, with a 100% money back guarantee! P.S. Why not make the rest of your life the best of your life? You can get started right now with Elegant Aging: Growing Deeper, Stronger and Wiser. P.P.S. Did you know that I offer telephone (including Skype video phone) counseling around the world? That's right, from the comfort of your home, you can get professional counseling from me, Dr. William DeFoore. Contact us now to schedule a session! Next Issue The Battered Wife Syndrome And How To Heal It

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