24 Year Old Married Lesbian

by BN
(Sacto, CA)

I am 24 years old and my wife has a problem dealing with her stress and has hit me on occasion. I am seeking help on what to do to help her with this. She wants to find a way to deal with her stress and anger.

Response from Dr. DeFoore

Hello BN, and thanks for asking for help here. I will suggest some pages for you to look at, which are designed to help folks like you and your wife.

These pages are specifically designed to provide the kind of resources you are looking for:

Using journaling to manage stress and anger
How to deal with abusive relationships
Quotes on relationships
Dealing with marital problems

You might think also about the fact that you were the one to write for help, when it's actually your wife that needs it. You may have some codependency going on, and if so I encourage you to look at that as well. I've been counseling people for 38 years, and I've found that the only way that someone can get help is when they take total responsibility for every step of the process.

I wish you great success in your relationship and your life.

My very best to you,

Dr. DeFoore

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